I agree that self-motivation is continually higher than motivation coming from outside. If you are self-motivated, you do not have to rely on anyone for motivation each time you need it. Before starting any task, ask yourself three questions, and if your answer is YES to all three, you are self-motivated and will feel empowered.


1.Can you do it? Do you have the time, expertise, and training to do the task at hand?

2.Will it work? (Response Efficacy) Does the behavior lead to the desired outcome?

3.Is it worth it?


The above questions are not based on common sense, but on research. Be a success seeker, not a failure avoider.